Digital Playbook $29· Print + personalized plan $97
Getting out the door✦Turning off screens✦Holding a limit
A play from the playbook
When “Put your shoes on” turns into a meltdown.
You’re already late and the shoes are still by the door. Find the situation you’re in, get the words to start with, then choose your next move based on how your child responds.
Illustrative playbook sample01 / Morning routines
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Name what your child wants
“You wanted to keep playing. It’s hard to stop when you’re having fun.”
02
Say this to hold the limit
“It’s time to go. Do you want to put your shoes on, or should I help?”
03
Choose your next move
If they reach for a shoe
Give them a moment to start. Offer help if they ask.
If they still refuse
Pause. Keep the limit short and offer one small step: “It’s time to go. I’ll hold the shoe while you slide your foot in.”
Personalized planIllustrative sample
Out the door with less stress
Age 4 · Shoes and leaving for preschool
Before it starts
Give a two-minute heads-up and set the shoes by the door.
What to say
“Shoes first. Do you want to start, or should I help?”
If they still say no
Pause, repeat the limit once, then calmly offer help.
Included with the $97 bundle
A plan for the moment you keep getting stuck.
Tell us your child’s age and describe one situation that keeps coming up. You’ll get a plan for that moment, with words you can try and a next step for when those words aren’t enough.
One small change to try before things escalate
A phrase suited to your child’s age and situation
A calm next step if your child still pushes back
Two ways to get started
Choose your edition
Digital edition
Digital Parenting Playbook
$29 USD
Open the playbook on your phone and go straight to the situation you’re facing.
Downloadable playbook organized by situation
Ready-to-use phrases for tantrums, transitions, and everyday limits
Next steps based on how your child responds
Print + personalization
Print Playbook + Personalized Plan
$97 USD
Get the printed playbook plus a plan for one situation with your child.
A printed copy of Less Yelling, More Connection
A plan tailored to your child’s age and one recurring situation
Specific words to try and a next step if they don’t work
Good to know
Does the $29 playbook include a personalized plan?
The $29 edition is the downloadable playbook. The personalized plan comes with the $97 print bundle.
What will I need to share for the plan?
Your child’s age and a brief description of one situation you’d like help with, such as leaving for school or turning off a screen.
Will this help with moments beyond tantrums?
The playbook also covers everyday limits and transitions, such as getting out the door or ending screen time.
